Being simply yourself…well, it’s not so simple. Or rather, it is easy to be but hard to understand.
Moreover, being yourself is a dynamic, changeable, adaptable and unpredictable concept. You cannot program to be yourself, it’s not a static and one-sided choice. No, it’s an explosion of probability. And being yourself, perhaps, is just let yourself live each of these probabilities.
Being yourself doesn’t mean being in a certain way , but do not preclude the possibility of being in any way.
Once you understand it, you will be it.
Do you think that being yourself is equivalent to dress alternative, have 10 tattoos, send to fuck who you want when you want, get drunk as a shit every night, try shamelessly with a girl or make the lamps in June?
I think being yourself is equivalent to smile at life without shame. Smiling at strangers on the street. Smiling at a little wagging dog. Smiling at a flower kissed by the sun . Smiling in front of the mirror. Smiling at yourself.
And whatever you do, whatever you dress, whatever you seem to be… your smile will tell the truth . Certainly not the smile that you print in command on your face when you take a picture. No. But the smile of your soul. A soul without fear of failing, of being judged . A soul without fear of suffering and without fear of being happy .
You are so afraid to be happy.
7 ottobre 2013 at 4:25 PM
“I think the basis of being yourself is knowing yourself, that you’ve found yourself and that you’re self-confident in a certain way. Without this basis, “being youself” has no footing.” (Cit Suricatoblog) 🙂
14 ottobre 2013 at 8:07 AM
for me being ourselves, it’s to be true, spontaneous
you don’t have to smile when you don’t want to but when you desire to express yourself, smile at a stranger, lie down in the middle of the street to look at the sky, or else, then you have to do it.
People need to stop acting in way to look normal, nobody is normal, by having a spontaneous life, you will help yourself to find people who are weird just like you
Most believe that we only live once, so people, try to enjoy !
14 ottobre 2013 at 8:17 AM
I meant that being yourself is smiling in a general point of view. It’s smiling at life, even if it’s not your best day and even if you are not effectively smiling, but your soul is doing it. It’s a kind of optimism.. everyone cannot smile everytime, it wont be realistic.. But there are someone that doesn’t know which is the real meaning of smiling! They are for sure not normal 😛
Ps: Let’s enjoy 🙂